Acknowledging the Hard Days: A Reflection from The Solo Mum Club

Recently, we shared a post that resonated deeply with so many of you. The overwhelming response we received confirmed what we’ve always believed—there’s a profound need to speak openly about these raw, vulnerable moments in life.

In the post, we talked about those days when healing feels impossible, when everything within you feels shattered and broken. It was a reminder that it’s okay to feel this way, to stop trying to fix everything immediately and to simply embrace where you are—even in the darkest moments.

The comments, messages, and stories you all shared in response were humbling and heartwarming. It’s clear that this is something we all experience, yet often feel too afraid to talk about. That’s why we feel it’s so important to keep shining a light on these conversations, creating a safe space where we can all share, learn, and grow together.

At The Solo Mum Club, we truly believe in the power of vulnerability and the beauty of rediscovering yourself, even in the midst of brokenness. Life isn’t about rushing to “fix” things or finding instant healing—it’s about embracing the process, finding small moments of grace, and slowly rediscovering your authentic self.

We hope this post serves as a reminder that you’re not alone. Whatever you’re going through, know that there is light, even if it feels far away right now. And sometimes, the greatest healing comes not from fighting the pain but from allowing yourself to fully feel it, so you can begin to rebuild from a place of truth and wholeness.

Thank you to everyone who engaged with us on this topic. Your voices matter, and together we’re creating a community that’s not only honest but also filled with hope and support.

We hope this resonates with you as much as it did with us. Let us know your thoughts—we love hearing from you!

With love,

Fiona

The Solo Mum Club

“Here to the hard days”